the amount of work you have completed or the number of calls you have made? It happens. I have lost "almost placements" because they were caught in a lie. I have lost respect for co-workers because they took the easy way that led them nowhere. And I have devalued myself when I fudged numbers or didn't present the whole truth.
It used to be really hard for me to say, "I don't know." But as I have aged and, hopefully, gained a bit of wisdom - I have also gained the ability to face what I don't know with an open mind - a mind that wants to learn, a mind that recognizes that it is ok to not know everything, and a mind that sees opportunity for growth with every unfamiliar idea or tech that crosses my path.
We usually pay for lack of knowledge and the price goes up considerably when we cover that lack up with deception or illusion - smoke and mirrors. The loss of a deal, a client ends a contract, a candidate avoids calls, or even the loss of employment and/or respect.
When my middle daughter was six years old, she came to me very afraid because ants seemed to have infested her room. They were everywhere around her bed and we sprayed & cleaned and cleaned & sprayed. She denied having had food in her room and we washed her sheets several times. We found the point of entry - a crack around the window by her bed - and we sealed it off. But to no avail, the ants came back the very next day.
With further investigation, another trail and point of entry was discovered. With the closest window sealed off, they had found the window on the other side of the room and made a long convoluted, winding trail to the bookcase by her bed. I tore the bookcase apart and then pulled it away from the wall. What I found there has become a legend in our home. Dozens and dozens and dozens of Oreo cookie ends had been stuffed in the narrow space between the wall and the bookcase. She had been sneaking cookies, eating the cream out of the middle and stashing the cookie ends in the wall. And she had sincerely forgotten that she had been doing that for weeks.
Her sneaking activity, the deceit, the hoarding, the breaking of rules all led to a horrifying run-in with a never-ending trail of ants. A lesson had been learned and we started over. She learned and we learned that it's never too late to do the right thing. Really, it isn't. Btw, how do you eat an Oreo cookie?
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the Olympic world by storm from 1984 to 1996. Now, the gold medal winner and her husband Bob Kersee (who was her Olympic coach), raise funds for the Jackie Joyner-Kersee Foundation in East St. Louis. Jackie, 50, talked to PARADE about her favorite Olympic memory, how she handled being coached by her husband, and more.
On her favorite Olympic memory.
"Winning is great, but being able to finish my last Olympic Games on American soil was very important. Even though I was injured, I didn’t let my psyche get the best of me and cause me to doubt myself, so I was willing to pull every muscle in my body in ‘96 in order to get the job done and I came away with the bronze medal. In some ways, means more than the gold medals."
On what it takes to be an Olympian.
"It takes dedication, it takes a lot of patience, it takes a commitment, but with the understanding that you need the support of others to really help you. There are a lot of other people that really play a significant role in helping you become an Olympian.
On being coached by her husband (who still coaches) during her Olympic years.
"I knew he was always going to be there with me and that I always felt that I was willing to be the student, and willing to learn from him and not let our relationship interfere with us winning. I had to look at him from the eyes of an athlete and not from the eyes of a wife."
On paving the way for female athletes.
"There are many women who came before me who didn’t really have the same opportunities that I have had. That’s why I always wanted to be a great ambassador — not only today's generation — but for the women who really didn’t have a voice, but who paved the way for me."
On what she's up to today.
"I do a lot of work with my foundation. I also do speaking engagements and I’m involved in the community. Teaching kids about health and fitness is important to me. It’s about being fit for life. Even though I’m not a competitive athlete, I have to still maintain things and try to keep myself fit because I am at that age where I need to make sure to get those regular checkups and make sure everything is in tact."
On the London Games."I'm excited about it, but I’m nervous for the athletes. I want them to do well. I'm looking forward to it being a really successful Olympic Games for our team because in Beijing, it was all about other countries, like Jamaica, so I’m looking forward to these Games in London."
Jackie Joyner-Kersee as she lands after the long jump, part of the heptathlon, 1984 Los Angeles Olympic Games.
Jacqueline "Jackie" Joyner-Kersee (born March 3, 1962) is a retired American athlete, ranked among the all-time greatest athletes in the women's heptathlon as well as in the women's long jump. She won three gold, one silver, and two bronze Olympic medals, in those two events at four different Olympic Games. Sports Illustrated for Women magazine voted Joyner-Kersee the Greatest Female Athlete of the 20th century
I had the good fortune to see Jackie Joyner-Keersee compete in the 1984 Olympic Games in Los Angeles and be in the audience at various social and sporting events where she's a very special guest in the St Louis area over the years. She's another true role model still inspiring youth to stay competitive in sports and careers.
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Ashton Eaton breaks world record in decathlon... Next Stop - London Olympic Games
Photo Source: Throwers of track & field shared Dan O'Brien's photo.
Ashton Eaton sets world mark
Updated: June 24, 2012, 1:48 AM ET
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EUGENE, Ore. -- Meter by meter, Ashton Eaton kept swallowing up real estate on a track that has always felt like home.
Second by second, the clock to the side of that track ticked away -- daring him to cross the finish line in a time that would put his name in the record books.
Eaton was every bit as relentless and stubborn as that clock Saturday. He set a personal best in the exhausting 1,500-meter finale and is now the world-record holder in the decathlon -- the cream of the crop in the event that determines the world's best athlete.
"It's like living an entire lifetime in two days," Eaton said.
He finished the grueling two-day event with 9,039 points in the U.S. Olympic trials to beat Roman Sebrle's 11-year-old mark by 13 points.
Eaton joined the likes of Bruce Jenner, Dan O'Brien and Rafer Johnson among the Americans who have held the world record. He did it on the 100th anniversary of the first Olympic decathlon -- and many of the American greats who have made history in the event were on hand to watch Eaton do the same.
He did it in terrible weather -- drizzle, rain, cold and then, finally, sunshine as he got ready for the final 1,500-meter push.
"He was in position for it, and he went for it and there was no letdown," O'Brien said. "The most impressive thing was that he kept up his intensity in this weather."
Eaton, the 24-year-old and a former NCAA champion for University of Oregon, needed a time of 4 minutes, 16.37 seconds in the 1,500 to break the mark. He finished in 4:14.48.
When it was over, he bent down and put his hands on his knees, then brought them up to cover his mouth. Tears were falling -- elated and shocked all at the same time.
A few minutes later, he took the mini American flag he'd been handed as a newly minted member of the U.S. Olympic team and stabbed it into the turf near the scoreboard that displayed his accomplishment: "World Record Decathlon. Ashton Eaton. 9,039 points." Photographers lined up for the historic shoot. Certainly, Eaton will own a copy or two by the time this night is over.