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Is it worth it to stand on my beliefs? YES! but that is what I believe.. it isn't the truth for everyone. Unfortunately there are No clear guidelines of dealing with problems of each individuals personal interpretation of obligation and personal conscience, so who makes these guidelines for us? The law? So many of us will not do or say anything to assist another, unless we see a legal infraction taking place, and maybe not even then..
Steve, I am finally coming to understand that it takes all kinds to make this world, and that what is good for me, isn't obviously going to be what works for another. We all have our own truths and beliefs that work for us all..
Personally, I wouldn’t be able to carry on a normal life, if I felt that I could have done something to help another if there is an opportunity, or ability, but hadn’t.. and especially if I know that I could have done something or was aware of the problems that could occur..
My father in law always said that in life everyone has their own truths, and we change our truths via our life experiences.. Ironically, my life experiences, have given me more desire to be stronger with my voice, not allay it..
AS *MLK one of the most respected leaders for peaceful protest stated -- "the ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and conveniences, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy"
(*For the record, I do not liken myself to MLK ;) but, have found him to have been one of the biggest advocates for Peace and love - (with respect to the human race, believe that we all have the same ability of the greatest leaders of the world, if we each chose and have the ability to apply ourselves - at the same token, we can also be the worst of the worst as well, again if we chose to apply ourselves))
But, at the same time, - as obama stated “How does each of us remain firm in our principles, and fight for what we consider right, without demonizing those with just as strongly held convictions on the other side?”
My father in law always said that in life everyone has their own truths, and we change our truths via our life experiences.. Ironically, my life experiences, have given me more desire to be stronger with my voice, not allay it..
This is what works for me, and this is what drives me.. but at the same time, others may believe that their friendships are more important.. so, is there really a right or wrong? Or does it come down to the individual truth of the individual?
Great point Thomas.. especially if one is helping for the right reason, or what is the cost..
it really isn't black and white is it.. sometimes it may be the battle versus the war.. Think Rayanne once said it, that sometimes one has to ask, is it really worth it..
Thomas.. if you remember I sent you a personal email, off line; in which I had mentioned to you that my comments had not been addressed to you - and actually your name had not even been mentioned within those comments.. My comments had addressed the individual by name to whose post I had responded.
I really don't think there is a black and white in this. MHO if what you are doing is Not allowing harm to another person.. but actually doing good, or supporting and helping another.. then I do agree with you... Why not help.. then the battle and war analogy works here.. are your really going against principles at this time?
But, if the person wants you to help or assist in something that could cause harm to another - or if your lack of action still allows for another to be harmed, whether it be emotionally, physically or mentally then yes, my stance stays.. One must stand for your principles.. at least that is my belief.
As I mentioned earlier, it is through a recent conversation, both off and online, that it is in recognizing that we all will have different values and beliefs that we find important. How we handle them will also be different. Some would prefer to walk away, and do nothing.. Some want to be an observer and do nothing, and some will want to do everything in that power to help stop, and others want to help repair the damage done
It is difficult for me to stand and watch, and do nothing, especially if I know there is a better way. A
the same time, it is still difficult for me to see others do nothing as well.. because Silence Can Be Interpreted as Acceptance - and silence gives power to others..
But, who am I to understand or know what makes you who you are? or why one did or does what one does.. is it fear? it is a life experience that makes one not wish to travel down paths once traveled, or replay old tapes?
All I know for sure is me.. I do believe it is worth standing by your beliefs no matter what.. and to do everything w/in one's power to always make sure to prevent someone from being harmed
but that is just me
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