Attitude and Aptitude….A Lesson in Humility (Part One of Three)….#knowledge, #learning, #thedanieljsmith, #personalgrowth

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To part one of today’s business- Attitude or Aptitude; what is more important on the career front? Attitude is defined in Wikipedia as:” a positive or negative evaluation of people, objects, event, activities, ideas, or just about anything in your environment,” and our pals over at Urban Dictionary sees it as “A position of the body or manner of carrying oneself:A state of mind or a feeling; disposition: had a positive attitude about work. An arrogant or hostile state of mind or disposition.”

This brings to my mind a real important question: As a new-comer to the company; or as a tenured employee in any company, should attitude be one of the things revealed often at the workplace or is it something best kept to oneself, and shared sparingly?
Since it can be viewed as both ‘good’ and ‘bad’; it may just be ‘the day’ which will provide the best guidance. Having a ‘positive attitude’ can keep you concentrating on producing some of your best work for your employer; whereas ‘bad attitude’ can make the day seem endlessly long, with very little positive momentum or task completion. Its not that you are unable to complete the task; at that moment- you just ‘don’t care’.

Believe it or not; this type of thinking WILL cost you promotions and plum assignments; plus possibly a bit of resentment among your co-workers. People, for some bizarre reason, seem to gravitate to the good, the shiny, the happy…(you get the idea) while those at the other end of the spectrum toil away alone, with their co-workers hoping for failure so that individual will be replaced on the team…..Interesting stuff!!

How you are mentally prepared for the day CAN affect your production; and that of those around you, inevitably leading to an effect on the individual and company reputation with your clients. And as we all know, sad clients tend to move on to a brighter atmosphere with little or no warning! YES, you ARE just one person; but think for a second what happens when your bad attitude is felt by others in your team?….Are they able to work, unaffected…or will you ‘rub off’ a little of the wrong way?

You could almost think the following: “Check Yourself to Protect Yourself!!”.

Have you ever wondered why there are opportunities missed when you are the leading candidate for the job? Have you ever wondered why you always get the same assignments, time and again, with little variation? (Okay, to your defense, possibly you ARE actually the one to turn to in this case). Take a long hard look in the mirror and reflect on your past behavior, and the quality of the assignments you have been turning in as of late….Is there alot of pride (personal and professional) in the picture?, or do you see alot of “going through the motions”?

Some of the greatest discoveries are completed by a synchronous and complimentary team. Very rarely do you ever see credit going to the ‘third wheel’ or those who were placed on the project to silence the bad vibe…Success breeds success, and positive energy flows easier through a cohesive team than one containing a ‘temporary’ bad apple. Like others; I, too, enjoy really good performance appraisals, pay-raises when the company does well, and being included in the ‘inner circle’ of the cutting edge projects.

Take responsibility for your actions; realize that there are occasions where your silence WILL do you more good than any negative energy you are currently feeling to the organization or your team leader. Look towards the BIG picture, and where you would like to be a week, a month, or a year down the road. Write this down on your ‘White Board’ and refer to it daily.

I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH- You provide a key part of the company reputation, and your own personal reputation WILL cloud the profitability of any company in a very short period of time. This you CAN change; and THIS IS all within your control. I have seen many a great employee passed over when promotions are handed out because the manager doesn’t see how more responsibility will affect poor production in a positive way…. I have also seen many a person change careers frequently because the system “is gunning for them; trying to bring them down; and lead them to failure”. Hmmmm, someone ELSE being responsible for YOUR failure….REALLY? (Believe it if you wish, I myself wouldn’t)

I have, on a number of occasions referred to my ‘TAKE’ on ‘Personal Branding’ as you being the individual in charge of all your actions..No one is holding a gun to your head (figuratively speaking) and forcing you to make the bad decisions. Yes, you do represent the company, because they provide you with the lifestyle and toys you are becoming more and more accustomed to; but more so, you represent yourself in all your dealings. People, for some reason are drawn to ‘like minds’ or those with the ideals to get the job done efficiently, on time and under budget. This is what raises the eyebrows of the power-brokers in your organization….and the more your clients speak up about you and what a pleasure you are in the workplace and on each project which you do well….The sky is the limit and success will arrive sooner than imagined.

The Take-Away for this section is: Attitude controls ALL your actions. Negative attitude affects the company culture, and sooner than you would like, it WIll bite you in the butt. Perception is 99% of any relationship- make sure you lead with your best foot each and every time! I would bank further profits on it. Teamwork is invaluable to any project and a well-oiled machine is not only sought after, but remain in demand long after the project is over. Place yourself on the WINNING PATH.

Does anyone out there see anything written here a little differently? If so, I would like to discuss it at your leisure, through this site, via Facebook: (like the page if you like this blog) or on Google + where I would like to discuss this live with the Socialytes at a time of your choosing.

Later today I will post part 2 on Aptitude and how it affects the equation- both here and at my own blog ‘Daniel J. Smith AND Something to Think About”

Until then: Think about your actions, change what you can and minimize the damage when you can’t. If everyone thought like you, behaved like you, was as involved as you…where would the company be?

Later, time for some cowbell, some sessions, and a little PS3 to blow off some steam (online id: thedanieljsmith….you expected anything else?) Win or Lose, Actions create conversation; conversation creates positive energy; and positive energy leads to success!!

All Aboard the “Success Express”


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